{"id":193,"date":"2016-04-04T17:26:22","date_gmt":"2016-04-04T17:26:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.donasofia.org\/?p=193"},"modified":"2017-02-02T21:25:32","modified_gmt":"2017-02-02T21:25:32","slug":"you-look-fantastic","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.donasofia.org\/?p=193","title":{"rendered":"You Look Fantastic"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cHel-loo, Donna Wallace,\u201d words spoken in a slow baritone, so warm I don\u2019t want to delete the voice mail. Ever.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou look fantastic&#8230; as always,\u201d rolls off the tongue of another of my charming male friends. [Insert a raised shoulder, a downward tilt of the chin, a smile and a blush.] Is he a player, or might he actually mean it? I am slow to believe, really slow. But, I have such good friends\u2014trustworthy and kind. Thoughtful and safe. I am blessed.<\/p>\n<p>In a world of harsh, angry sounds, \u00a0I thirst for these kind words,\u00a0raindrops in dust, that round out the steady, daily tenderness of my husband. In a world of mergers, acquisitions, negotiations, and equality, I long to be found; a jewel, feminine. Surprised and delighted by forgotten chivalry, warm oil is poured\u00a0over my achy soul, and I am reminded of an ancient myth long forgotten. A woman dancing in firelight. Mist rising above the sea. Gallantry.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHello, Beautiful.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cHel-loo, Donna Wallace,\u201d words spoken in a slow baritone, so warm I don\u2019t want to delete the voice mail. Ever. \u201cYou look fantastic&#8230; as always,\u201d rolls off the tongue of another of my charming male friends. [Insert a raised shoulder, a downward tilt of the chin, a smile and a blush.] Is he a player, or might he actually mean it? I am slow to believe, really slow. But, I have such good friends\u2014trustworthy and kind. Thoughtful and safe. I [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[29,57],"tags":[37,50],"class_list":["post-193","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-community","category-gender-and-grace","tag-beauty","tag-identity"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.donasofia.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/193","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.donasofia.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.donasofia.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.donasofia.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.donasofia.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=193"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.donasofia.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/193\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":194,"href":"http:\/\/www.donasofia.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/193\/revisions\/194"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.donasofia.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=193"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.donasofia.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=193"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.donasofia.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=193"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}