“What do you do?” he asks across the table where we are sipping local brews and wines\u00a0and scarfing\u00a0fire-roasted pizza on a perfect September night out on the hipster side of town. Little ones toddle around and dogs recline at our feet hoping for a wayward bit of cheese\u00a0or chunk of seasoned venison sausage to fall. We’re meeting new friends, sharing small talk. Through a screen of yellowing Aspens I look up at the purple range of mountains in the distance.<\/p>\n
I usually give\u00a0a light dismissive wave of my hand and a brief one or two-liner to the question: “I’m writer. A book architect.”<\/p>\n
“Fascinating!”<\/p>\n
Dammit, I should have asked the opener first. “Well, we all have to do something, right?” I say. “How about you?”<\/p>\n
“Wait,” he says, “I want to know more about this ‘book architect thing’ you mentioned. I’ve always wanted to write a book.”<\/p>\n
Um, yeah. Here we go. We all think we do, but that’s usually before\u00a0giving sufficient thought to the old adage: “Writing is easy, just open a vein and bleed onto the page, blah, blah”–an adage because it’s true.<\/p>\n
I smile and give him a brief rendition of helping authors make their way to publication. But\u00a0I don’t really say what I do. Small talk at a party doesn’t afford the space. We have to establish a little trust first, be a bit deeper into our dregs.<\/p>\n
I guide authors. Create sanctuary–a safe place. I hold the rope. I gently nudge and cajole their words out onto the page where we can then attend to the words and the author’s soul and see what happens next. This process takes time, courage, and tons of trust.<\/p>\n
In a word, it is sacred.<\/p>\n
How do I describe those\u00a0rare, unforeseen slivers of time when at my bidding a new friend closes the door, turns the dial, first one way and then another…click.<\/p>\n
Pulling open the heavy door to the safe, he reaches in and with trembling fingers lifts out a dust-covered story, then\u00a0dares to let me see\u00a0its contents–its details. Without removing his hands, he holds up the devastating secret to the light, he wipes away some of the grime and we look at the truth of it\u00a0together.\u00a0I cry too and place my hand over his, before tearfully setting the object back in safe keeping. The truth remains, but it is less fearsome, less incriminating now. He owns it.<\/p>\n
Spin the dial. Give the lever\u00a0one more pull just to be sure its secure. [Sometimes the process is dirtier, more of a shoveling of gook and grime to reveal the zombie, or a whole clan of them. I hand over a shovel and he gives it a good thwack in the throat\u00a0and it flees. Maybe for longer this time.]<\/p>\n
What do I do? To make money? To make the world more livable? I have hundreds of friends\u2014maybe even one or two thousand or several\u2014 and only some of them writers, coming and going, drawing in close then traveling out far. In this ebb and flow of life, I have a knack for pulling people in to my chest\u00a0and establishing quick intimacy, connecting to their souls and their truth in a remarkably short amount of time. Then away they go.<\/p>\n
The moment is a rare gift, an encounter that I never\u00a0take for granted. I am honored, and yes a little more healed too, by each and every encounter… at being invited in behind closed doors. What do I do? I walk around in wonder.<\/p>\n
I smile and take another bite of pizza.<\/p>\n
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